To Everyone Who’s Financially Breaking, You’ll Be Okay
You have what it takes.
“If people bring so much courage to this world, the world has to kill them to break them, so of course it kills them. The world breaks every one and afterward many are strong at the broken places. But those that will not break, it kills. It kills the very good and the very gentle and the very brave impartially. If you are none of these you can be sure it will kill you too but there will be no special hurry.”
― Ernest Hemingway, A Farewell to Arms
If you’re one of the very good ones, the world will break you. Not because you’ve done anything wrong, but because you’re ready to face a choice, to take responsibility for circumstances that were never your fault, to grow up. You’re ready to say, it may be messy, but I got this.
I got this.
Whether you break into a million pieces and die, or heal instead as a stronger person depends on you coming to terms with this simple thing.
Whatever you think is right today, you’ll see was wrong tomorrow. You know nothing.
Your job is to become humble again. Your job is to figure out how you’re wrong, not right, everyday and do things differently bit by bit. I know it’s the opposite of “positive thinking.” Read more
Jane Hwangbo - Medium - 7 May 2017